Monday, January 28, 2013

Wisdom at the Wheel -- January 28, 2013

Each Friday, I introduce our lesson for the week.  Many times, I give you a peek into the lives of our family and what’s on my heart.

Why do you think I do that?

The biggest reason is that I want you to see how the Holy Spirit is guiding and directing my moves in something simple like the preparation of a Sunday School lesson.

Pop quiz:  What do you call the story of what God has done in your life?

It’s called a testimony.  Sometimes we get very nervous about the thought of sharing our testimony with someone who doesn’t know Christ.  But your testimony is simply your story of how you’ve seen God work in your life.

I’ve been reading a book called “EntreLeadership” by Dave Ramsey.

Have you heard of Dave Ramsey?

Dave’s bread and butter is giving people scripturally-based financial advice.  This book is different.  The subtitle on the book is “20 Years of Practical Business Wisdom from the Trenches”.  In short, it’s a business management and leadership book.

Our lesson about wisdom came from concepts in the book.  Now a few of you might have a spring in your step knowing this is a business book.  Others might put your brain in neutral because running a business is the last thing you want to talk about on a Sunday morning.

So I’m asking you to bear with me and come with me on a journey that will touch on wisdom in a very practical way.

I finished the book while in the carpool line waiting to pick up the girls on Thursday.  Having nothing else to read, I opened the book back up toward the front and started reading some more.  That’s when it hit me.

The section I opened up to was on Goal Setting.  Dave talks about how Zig Ziglar uses a graphic called the “Wheel of Life” to describe the different facets of our life.

Here are the seven parts to the “Wheel of Life”:

 
We looked up scripture that gives us wisdom as it relates to each of the seven spokes on the wheel.

First up is CAREER.

Matthew 25:21: 
21 “His master replied, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’

Colossians 3:23:
23 Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters,


Second is FINANCIAL.

Ecclesiastes 5:10:
10 Whoever loves money never has enough;
    whoever loves wealth is never satisfied with their income.
    This too is meaningless.

Luke 14:28-29:
28 “Suppose one of you wants to build a tower. Won’t you first sit down and estimate the cost to see if you have enough money to complete it? 29 For if you lay the foundation and are not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule you, 30 saying, ‘This person began to build and wasn’t able to finish.’


Third is SPIRITUAL.

Romans 12:10-12:
10 Be devoted to one another in love. Honor one another above yourselves. 11 Never be lacking in zeal, but keep your spiritual fervor, serving the Lord. 12 Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer.

Psalms 119:10-11:
10 I seek you with all my heart;
    do not let me stray from your commands.
11 I have hidden your word in my heart
    that I might not sin against you.


Fourth is PHYSICAL.

1 Corinthians 6:19-20:
19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price. Therefore honor God with your bodies.

1 Corinthians 9:24-27:
24 Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one gets the prize? Run in such a way as to get the prize. 25 Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last, but we do it to get a crown that will last forever. 26 Therefore I do not run like someone running aimlessly; I do not fight like a boxer beating the air. 27 No, I strike a blow to my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize.


Fifth is INTELLECTUAL.

1 Peter 1:13:
13 Therefore, with minds that are alert and fully sober, set your hope on the grace to be brought to you when Jesus Christ is revealed at his coming.

Proverbs 1:7:
7 The fear of the LORD
is the beginning of knowledge;
fools despise wisdom and discipline.


Sixth is FAMILY.

1 Corinthians 7:3-5:
3 The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. 5 Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.

Ephesians 6:1-4:
1 Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 “Honor your father and mother”—which is the first commandment with a promise— 3 “so that it may go well with you and that you may enjoy long life on the earth.”
4 Fathers, do not exasperate your children; instead, bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord.

Proverbs 31:30-31:
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
    but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
31 Honor her for all that her hands have done,
    and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.


Seventh is SOCIAL.

Acts 2:42:
42 They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.

Galatians 6:10:
10 Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers.

John 15:15-17:
15 I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not know his master’s business. Instead, I have called you friends, for everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. 16 You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit—fruit that will last—and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you. 17 This is my command: Love each other.


Do you feel wiser now?

Here’s my challenge for you.  If you like this concept of the “Wheel of Life”, grow this list of Bible passages that fit each section.

It can be your very own in-depth Bible study on wisdom.  I promise that the more time you spend in God’s Word, the more you will grow in Christ.

Make it a great week!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

“Man is made so that whenever anything fires his soul impossibilities vanish.”  - Jean de la Fontaine

Friday, January 25, 2013

So You Want to be a Wise Guy, Huh? -- January 25, 2013

Where did you get your wisdom?

From your experiences?  From family members and friends?  From sit-coms?  From the Bible?

Wisdom is our focus this week.  In fact, the title of our lesson is "Wisdom: Its Role In The Lives of God's People".

Here's the breakdown of the points from our book:

1.  Wisdom is rooted in the fear of God
2.  Wisdom directs our passions.
3.  Wisdom provides the proper perspective on life in a fallen world.
4.  Wisdom guides our priorities and points us to Christ.

The scripture passages are from Proverbs 1:7, Song of Solomon 6:3, Job 1:20-21, and Ecclesiastes 12:13-14.

Now that you know what the lesson plan is and you have read our Bible verses, I have to let you in on a little secret.  We're going to go in an entirely different direction in our exploration of wisdom this Sunday (9:50 a.m. of course).

We'll use those four lesson points as our touchstone, but we'll find some better scripture to flesh them out.  So read your lesson.  It has some great questions to ponder.

But come in with an open mind.  Why?

Because wisdom is more than philosophy.  Wisdom is knowledge combined with action.  That is all for now, Grasshopper.

Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

"You can lead a horse to water, but he might go back to Jack and Coke."  Nick Murray

Monday, January 21, 2013

Keep God's Song in Your Heart -- January 21, 2013

Andrew did a wonderful job walking us through the Psalms.  The passages we looked at ran from delight to confession to celebration to hope.

One thing he said that really stuck with me was "Keep God's song in your heart".

He talked about how God's Word should arouse as much emotion in us as the fight song of our alma mater.  That's a great analogy.

The scriptures we saw give us a great guide for how we should pray.  One quote in our book from Ben Patterson says, "Your prayer life will never go further than your grasp of God's Word".

Andrew's final illustration referenced Mike Huckabee's commentary after the horrible Sandy Hook Elementary shooting in Connecticut in December.  If you've never seen it, here it is...




Make it a great week!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

“Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy.” – Dale Carnegie

Friday, January 18, 2013

Just a Singin' -- January 18, 2013

Quick question:  What's your favorite song?

Your second favorite song?

What radio or satellite station is your favorite?

What do you listen to when you are in a great mood?

What do you listen to when you are in the dumps?

What is it about music that can stir us so deeply?

If you looked at my phone, you'd see a lot of 80's pop music on there.  I make no excuses about thoroughly enjoying songs from that decade.  And I'll tell you why.

Do you remember Casey Kasem's American Top 40?  You know, the one where he signed off every broadcast with his famous line: "Keep your feet on the ground and keep reaching for the stars"?

Well, when I was a teenager, I loved listening to that countdown.  It came on every Sunday night and played the most popular songs for that week.

Our family would go to church Sunday night, then go out to eat with friends.  The other teenagers and I would eat quickly so we could borrow the keys to go sit in the car and listen to all the great songs.  So, music from that decade brings back great memories.

If you scrolled through my phone's song list (you sure are being nosy), one genre of songs that might make you go "Hmm" are all the hymns I have on there.  I asked earlier what your favorite song is.  Even my girls know mine is "Amazing Grace".  I think it's the greatest song ever written.  As a matter of fact, I have 34 different versions of it from artists like Elvis Presley, The Statler Brothers, Avalon, and Louie Armstrong.

That hymn and others like it give me comfort.  Though the arrangements might be different, the message stays the same.  And in this crazy world we live in, consistency warms my heart.

This week we are going to look at the songs of the Old Testament.  They are put together in a book that's in the middle of your Bible when you open it up.  It's called the Book of Psalms.

Our lesson this Sunday (9:50 am by the way) is called "Psalms: Songs for New Creation Hearts".  We'll look at the different moods created by the different Psalms.  The scripture passages are Psalms 1, Psalms 51:1-5, Psalms 100, and Psalms 110.

We'll run the gamut from Delight to Confession to Celebration to Hope.  So come join the party Sunday morning.

Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

“One person with a belief is equal to a force of ninety-nine with only interests.”  John Stuart Mill

Monday, January 14, 2013

Go and Make Disciples -- January 14, 2013

Normally, I would give you a recap of our Sunday School lesson.  But I'm going to change it up a little this time through. 

I hope you were able to hear Scott Guffin's sermon yesterday.  I had planned to give you a link to it, but it's not up on the church's website yet.  I will send it to you when it's available.

The focus of Scott's sermon was on discipleship.  His scripture focus was Matthew 28:19-20 which says:  "Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”  You've heard that before; it's the Great Commission.

These were Jesus' final words in the book of Matthew.  They are strong words indeed.

Something came to me while I've pondered Scott's sermon.  It's what Jesus could have said but didn't.

Jesus could have said, "Go and do good works for other people."
He could have said, "Go home and study everything I've taught you."
He could have said, "Tell your family and close friends about me, then call it a day."

But He didn't do that.  His command was to "go and make disciples".

You'll be hearing more about discipleship in 2013 so get ready for it.  Scott's message yesterday was the tip of the spear.

He had three points:

1.  We must decide to become a disciple-making church.
2.  We must determine to have a harvest mentality.
3.  We must commit to the disciple-making process.

It was a powerful message. 

Of all his supporting scripture, one stood out for me.  It was 1 Peter 4:10 which says:  "
Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms."

Ask God to give you opportunities to make disciples.  He won't disappoint.

Make it a great week!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

“Life is like a ten-speed bicycle….Most of us have gears that we never use.”  Charlie Brown in Peanuts

Friday, January 11, 2013

Connecting the Dots -- January 11, 2013

Yesterday afternoon, I met with Howard Chapman and Nate French.  Howard and I make up the Discipleship Council for Liberty Park Baptist Church; Nate is our staff liaison.  One question that came up is an extremely important one:

"What does it mean to be a disciple of Jesus?"

Read the question again.

Now one more time.

It's a really heavy question.

And it came during hour 21 of a 25-hour lesson that God had been giving me.  He used two of our class members and a sports radio call-in show to drive a point home to me.  What's the lesson?

BE A BLESSING TO OTHERS.

Do I need to connect the dots for you?  OK.

Dot one:  You received an email from Christina about a family who is going through a real tough financial time.  We are taking up a collection for them.

On Wednesday night, one of our class members gave Christina some money for the family.  That class member saw me later when no one else was around and asked me a question.  She asked, "We can't afford to give much.  Is what we gave enough?"  I assured her that anything given would be appreciated, and we moved on to a different topic.

But my answer, while correct, was way too shallow.  Here's what I should have said: "Your gift will be a blessing to that family.  They will thank God for your generosity and your sacrifice.  God will do mighty things with your gift.  What matters is your giving spirit."  That's what I should have said.  Because it's true.

The second dot came from another class member.  It was a simple email I got.  It asked a simple question.  But through that email, I knew he had been praying for me.  That small email was an encouragement for me.  He was a blessing to me.

The final dot came from a most unlikely source--the Paul Finebaum Radio Show.  For those that don't follow sports, Paul Finebaum has a sports radio call-in show.  I can't listen when callers are giving their opinions, but Paul is one of the best interviewers in the business.

His guests were Carson Tinker and Dr. Kevin Elko.  Carson Tinker was the long-snapper for the University of Alabama national-championship-winning football team (is my enthusiasm subdued enough?).  Dr. Elko is a sports psychologist who speaks to the Crimson Tide football team regularly.

When the massive tornado ripped through Tuscaloosa in 2011, Carson was riding out the storm with his girlfriend, Ashley Harrison.  The tornado hit the house they were in.  She died; he survived.  His is a wonderful story of both faith and action.

On the radio show, Carson spoke of how Dr. Elko had helped him through the loss.  He said that when Dr. Elko comes in to speak to the football team, he always begins with a Bible passage.  Then, he explains how that Bible passage is relevant to them.

Carson said that way he was able to survive his loss was to be a blessing to others.  He's been in the forefront of helping Tuscaloosa rebuild. 

Is this a different way of saying that we can work our way to a right relationship with God?  Not at all.

But when our hearts are pointed to God, our actions will point that way too.

I don't know where God is leading me with this, but I know it will be great.  So here is my gift to you.  It's the message God gave me and you:

BE A BLESSING TO OTHERS.

Now to quote the great philosopher, Forrest Gump:  "That's all I got to say about that."

Our lesson this Sunday (9:50 am of course) is "The Kings: God Raises Up Kings to Lead His People".  God's original plan was for Him to be the only King.  God tapped judges to lead the Jews, but that wasn't good enough for the people.

The people wanted to have a human king like all the other countries did.  And they pestered God until He relented.  He warned the Jewish people about the downside of human kings, but the people told God in effect: "We don't care about the repercussions, we want what every other country has".

Our scripture passages will be 2 Samuel 7:11-24 and 1 Kings 8:54-61.  Give it a read.  You may be surprised at how relevant this lesson is to us.

Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

“If you’re not prepared to be wrong, you’ll never come up with anything original.”  Ken Robinson

Friday, January 4, 2013

Comfort and Complacency -- January 4, 2013

So have you made a mistake by writing "2012" instead of "2013" yet?  I'm on the scoreboard with one so far.

Why is it so hard to "turn the page" to something new?  I think we get comfortable with the way things are and don't want our comfort to be interrupted. 

It's like when you are kicked back relaxing in your La-Z-Boy and suddenly realize the remote control is over on the couch.  You're comfortable; you don't want to have to get up.  Besides, the TV show is one of your favorites.  Until the next show comes on.  You really want to change the channel.  But you've got your recliner at the perfect angle.  What do you do?

You thank God that you have kids.  Here's where they come in handy.  You have one of them fetch the remote control.  Crisis averted.  Life is good again.

Comfort can turn into complacency.  And that's where your usually high standards can begin to slip.

Sometimes it feels like you are the only person this happens to.  Until you pick up your Bible and start reading the stories.

Our lesson this week is the whole Old Testament in a nutshell.  Here the steps of the comfort and complacency cycle are repeated over and over and over and over (you get the point):

1.  A generous and faithful God gives His people a land.
2.  A rebellious people reject God's rule.
3.  A gracious God promises to restore His people from the nations.

The scripture passages are Joshua 1:1-9, Judges 2:11-19, and Ruth 4:14-17.  Kinda neat we'll look at a something from Joshua, then Judges, then Ruth since they are back to back to back in the Bible.

So join us at 9:50 a.m. Sunday morning as we look at the cycle.

Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

"You cannot take the mild approach to the weeds in your mental garden. You have got to hate weeds enough to kill them. Weeds are not something you handle; weeds are something you devastate.”  Jim Rohn