Monday, May 28, 2012

Marked By Love recap and Memorial Day thoughts -- May 28, 2012

Happy Memorial Day everyone!

Yesterday was one of those fun times where our discussion kept us from going through all our verses.

The question that triggered it was "How would your love for your family, friends, and even strangers look different if it were compelled by the love of Christ?"

We talked about how it's easier to go on a mission trip and share the gospel with someone we'll probably never see again than it is to share Christ with a friend who's lost.  If we are rejected by someone we don't know, that's one thing.  But we risk a friendship if our overtures about Jesus are rejected by someone we know.

Many times we take the easy road of not sharing the gospel so we don't "rock the boat" and make anyone feel uncomfortable.  We know that's not what the Bible tells us to do; it says to tell everyone about Jesus.

I shared a story that Scott told me that happened during Trail Days in Damascus, Virginia a couple weeks ago.  Trail Days takes place at the half-way point of the Appalachian Trail.  Hikers have spent about three months already on the trail.  The group from our church provided basic medical help and tests.

One hiker had developed a stomach sickness because he drank some contaminated water somewhere on the journey.  He needed to go to the hospital to get the right medicine to cure the sickness.  Scott drove him to the hospital.  While spending a few hours waiting with him, Scott asked the hiker about his relationship with Christ.

The hiker said he was a Christian, but then quickly said he thought that his beliefs should be a very private thing--not to be discussed with others.

Scott asked him a couple questions.  The first was "If you had a tent that worked great for anyone hiking the Trail, would you tell everyone about it?"  The hiker said he would.

Then Scott asked, "If your relationship with Jesus brings you great joy that you would want your family and friends to experience, would you tell them about it?"  The hiker said, "Hmmm". 

That's as far as it went.  But that hiker has another three months to ponder Scott's question.  It's also a question you and I need to think about.

I hope you are enjoying your Memorial Day.

Memorial Day is the one day during the year that we remember the 656,223 men and women who have sacrificed their lives in the wars since the founding of our nation.  The freedoms we enjoy were purchased at a high price.

On Memorial Day, the U.S. flag is raised to the top of the staff and then slowly lowered to half-staff position.  It remains at half-staff only until noon.  At noon, the flag is raised to full-staff for the remainder of the day.

Wikipedia has a great explanation for why this is: "The half-staff position remembers the men and women who gave their lives in service to their country.  At noon their memory is raised by the living, who resolve not to let their sacrifice be in vain, but to rise up in their stead and continue the fight for liberty and justice for all."

I'll close with a video tribute to those who gave all they had for you and me.



Make it a great week!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne


"It’s easy to carry the past as a burden instead of a school. It’s easy to let it overwhelm you instead of educate you."  Jim Rohn

Friday, May 25, 2012

That's Gonna Leave a Mark -- May 25, 2012

Two years ago, I was at a getting a haircut at SuperCuts.  My stylist asked where I live.  When I told her Liberty Park, she and a couple other stylists chuckled.  When I asked what was funny, they explained that they viewed Liberty Park as Birmingham's Lake Wobegon.  You know, Garrison Keiller's quote of "Welcome to Lake Wobegon, where all the women are strong, all the men are good-looking, and all the children are above average".  Through the stylists' dealings with other Liberty Parkers, our little area seemed like utopia to them.

The last time I looked, our 35242 zip code was the fifth wealthiest in the state of Alabama.  So life for us should be close to perfect, right?

Is your life perfect?  I'll answer quickly that mine is definitely not.  And a quick glance of the prayer list on the church's website shows needs that can't be fixed by just having a few bucks in your pocket.

Our class isn't immune either.  We have folks that are going through some difficult times with their health.  And I know there are other needs that people don't want to make public.

So where does that leave us?  Should we just hang our heads and begin an intense bout of naval-gazing?

Here's the bad news:  We live in an imperfect body in an imperfect house with an imperfect family, hang out with imperfect friends, and do all of this in an imperfect world.

But here's the good news:  We serve a perfect God who works everything in our lives to His perfect plan.

We finish our unit on leaving "A Lasting Legacy" this week.  Our lesson is entitled "Marked By Love".  The focus of the lesson is showing the love of God to others.

Our Bible passages come from 2 Corinthians 5:14-15, Acts 17:1-4, and 1 Thessalonians 1:2-10.

One place we can show love is serving in Vacation Bible School June 4-8.  This is the biggest outreach our church has to the Liberty Park community.  Nothing is greater than teaching a child about the love of Jesus.

Please help if you can--even if it's only for one day.  This includes the guys, too!

If you are traveling this Memorial Day weekend, be safe; we want you back next week.  If you're in town, I'll see you at 9:50 a.m. Sunday morning.

And remember, "We always thank God for all of you, remembering you constantly in our prayers." (1 Thessalonians 1:2)

Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne


“The time is always right to do what is right.”  Martin Luther King Jr.

Monday, May 21, 2012

Marked By Faith recap -- May 21, 2012

Getting through our lesson yesterday was tough.  It's never easy to discuss potential child sacrifice.  Although it's a puzzling story, it highlights one central point--faith.  Abraham showed faith in God even though killing his son was the last thing he'd ever want to do.

The main application of this story is that God came through for Abraham in a crisis and in a way that Abraham did not anticipate.

And because of witnessing Abraham's faith, Isaac showed his faith in God later in his life.

And it didn't stop there.  Isaac passed his faith to his son, Jacob.  Jacob in turn passed his faith in God to his children, who became the 12 tribes of Israel.  The faithfulness of one man--tested, proven, and multiplied--changed the history of mankind.

Real faith often requires us to walk to the brink of trust, then take another step of obedience.

I'll leave you with a quote from N.T. Wright from the book "Small Faith, Great God":  "Christian faith--Biblical faith--isn't a matter of putting a brave face on things and trying our best.  It is a matter of looking away from ourself and seeing the world as God sees it, as it really is."

Make it a great week!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne


"Whenever you do a thing, act as if all the world were watching." -- Thomas Jefferson

Friday, May 18, 2012

A Creepy Story of Faith -- May 18, 2012

Is there a story in the Bible that creeps you out?  Even though that story is there to teach you something, it is unsettling to think about?

Our story this week is that one for me.  It's the story of Abraham and Isaac and the sacrifice God asks Abraham to make.

The scripture passage is Genesis 22:1-14 and Genesis 26:2-5.

Child sacrifice isn't something that is discussed in polite company.  That is the gist of the first passage.  But it's really a test of faith for Abraham.  Fortunately, Abraham passes the test.

This story was always unsettling for me growing up because I was the first-born son in my family.  I identified strongly with Isaac.  Now that I'm a dad, I identify more with Abraham.  And the thought of being asked to sacrifice one of my kids boggles my mind.

We'll dive deeper into our story on Sunday (9:50 a.m.).  We'll see what God had in mind in testing Abraham this way.

Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with you family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne


“No matter what age you are, or what your circumstances might be, you are special, and you still have something unique to offer. Your life, because of who you are, has meaning.”  Barbara De Angelis

Monday, May 14, 2012

Marked By Hope recap -- May 14, 2012

Andrew did an outstanding job leading our "Marked By Hope" lesson yesterday.  The story of Hannah was a great one for Mother's Day.  Hannah showed her faith in God by trusting that He would show favor on her.  She promised to give her child to God if she received that blessing.

Hannah followed through with that oath to God.  She gave her son, Samuel, to God by committing that he would be a Nazarite.  The Nazarite's outward signs--the growth of hair, abstention from alcohol, and avoidance of contact with the dead--are illustrative of devotion to God.

Samuel grew up to be the final judge in Israel before Saul was chosen as king.

Andrew brought up a good point that not praying for people we love is a sin.  So we should all be sure to pray to God on behalf of our family.

Another point he made deals with our actions.  Our actions are what other people (especially our kids) judge us by.  We need to make sure what we do lines up with what Jesus told us to do.  Great stuff.

Make this a great week.  And remember, others are watching what you do.

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne


"We must learn to apply all that we know so that we can attract all that we want.Jim Rohn

Friday, May 11, 2012

A Different Mother's Day Story -- May 11, 2012

Did you know that Mother's Day is the busiest day of the year in the restaurant business?

I'm learning it the hard way because I didn't make reservations in time at the restaurant my wife wanted.  Lunch at 2:30 p.m. wouldn't work.

So now it's Plan B. 

We celebrate mothers this Sunday with a special lesson.  It's about Samuel and his mother, Hannah.

It's a story about love, about faith, and about sacrifice.  All attributes of a great mom.

The scriptures for the story come from 1 Samuel 12:23-24, 1 Samuel 1:10-20, and 1 Samuel 1:27-2:1.

A Christian mom's (and dad's) greatest desire should be to see their children come to the Lord.  This Sunday (at 9:50 a.m.), we'll see this in action.

Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne


“Research shows that 90 percent of five-year-olds are creative, but only 2 percent of adults are.”  Lee Silber

Tuesday, May 8, 2012

Making Your Mark recap -- May 8, 2012

Dr. Scott Guffin did a great job teaching Sunday School.  He kicked off a neat Sunday morning that had him taking care of Sunday School, Dr. Jim Bruton delivering the sermon at "big church", and Mrs. Oleta Bruton speaking at the Senior Adult Recognition Luncheon.

Though each of them used different scriptures, each touched on our lesson of "Making Your Mark" from a different angle.

Scott taught about building on the right foundation, sharing your life message, and keeping your focus from Deuteronomy 6:1-15.

He showed this video:

 
It speaks directly to our class since most of us have children.  Watch the video.  Remember "40 versus 3000" as you go through your day.

Dr. Bruton's message came from 2 Corinthians 5.  If you have ever been part of R.A.'s, you'll recognize 2 Corinthians 5:20 which says: "we are ambassadors for Christ"In the geopolitical world, an ambassador is someone sent by one country to another; that person represents the country who sent him.

It's the same way for us as Christians.  We are sent by Christ to represent Him to the world.  We are to conduct a ministry of proclaiming the Good News.  Those who know Jesus are to tell those who don't know Jesus.

As a Christian, your actions are the book that others in this world will read about Jesus.

Mrs. Oleta geared her talk to the Senior Adults.  But her message fits everyone.  Her point?  "I want to live until I'm gone".  Can't add anything to that.

Three different people; three different angles; one unifying theme.  Make Your Mark.

Look for ways to be a blessing to others this week.  Make your mark.

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

“I believe people should study a little bit every day. It should become habitual, like brushing your teeth, combing your hair, having a shower or getting dressed. Study the mind, the laws of the universe and paradigms. There’s enough information on those subjects to keep a person studying forever.”  Bob Proctor

Friday, May 4, 2012

What Will You Leave Behind? -- May 4, 2012

We start a new series of lessons this week.  The series' title is "A Lasting Legacy".  The first lesson is "Making Your Mark".  Our scripture passage will be Deuteronomy 6:1-15

It got me thinking.  What do want to leave behind after you're gone? 

Because, unlike the ancient Egyptians, we don't bury our treasure with us when we're put in the ground.  Is 'stuff' what you live for?  The "Christian" answer is "No".  But have you ever had a yard sale?  You know, cleaning out the 'stuff' that's stored in the attic or garage. 

We've had yard sales.  Been excited to make some "good money" getting rid of things we don't need anymore.  But if you want to make yourself sick, think about how much you paid for that 'stuff' and how much someone else paid for that same 'stuff' a few years later.  Queasy yet?

So if 'stuff' isn't the answer, what is?  Let's go a bit deeper.

Whose lives will you touch by your treading here on Earth?  You might go with the easy answer and say, "My family and close friends", and you'd be 97.4% right.

But was it a positive or a negative impact?  You see, every action we take while we're on this terrestrial ball affects the lives of others. 

Do something for me.  Think of someone in your life who was an inspiration to you.  Someone who challenged you to do more than you thought you could ever do.  Someone who believed in you when you had given up hope.  Someone whose advice always got you back on track.  Got them in mind?  Makes you feel good even right now, doesn't it?

That's what I want you to be for someone else.  How?  Think again about the person who inspired you.  Odds are pretty good that it was a mature Christian you thought of.

You see, if you live what the Bible says, you will have a positive impact on those around you.  Though our scripture passage comes from the fifth book of the Bible, its lessons are just as applicable now as they were when Moses penned them.

Come this Sunday to hear how important "making your mark" is.

Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne


“Music has the capacity to touch the innermost reaches of the soul and music gives flight to the imagination.”  Plato