Friday, December 7, 2012

Them's Fightin' Words -- December 7, 2012

Are you a good fighter?

I'm not talking about the effectiveness of your left jab or if you have a black belt in karate.  I want to know if you are "good" at fighting with other people.

What do you mean by "good"?

Simply this:  How "good" are you at resolving conflict with others? 

Do you handle problems quickly or let them fester over years?  Do you look for a middle ground of agreement or take a "my way or the highway" posture?  Do you try to see a situation from the other person's perspective or just say they need to 'Cowboy Up' and get over it?

This Sunday at 9:50 a.m. we will see how the Bible instructs us to resolve conflict with other believers.  It's a great step-by-step process.  Our scriptures will be Matthew 18:15-17, Galatians 5:13-15, and Galatians 6:1-5.

Why talk about conflict during the "feel good" Christmas season?  Because family conflict at the Christmas dinner table is one of the most stressful times of the year.

I want you to see what we are supposed to do to resolve that conflict.

If you think about it, you can control only two things:  your attitude and your actions.  Nothing else.

Our lesson this week touches on both.  I hope you have no conflict at all in your life.  But if you do (or think one day you will), this lesson is for you.

Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

"If you could kick the person responsible for most of your troubles, you would not be able to sit down for six months." - Unknown

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