Sunday, January 17, 2016

Where Were You During the Blizzard of 2014? -- January 31, 2014

It looks like we are on the back side of the Blizzard of 2014 (aka Winter Storm Leon).

What was your story?

I got to spend the night at the office Tuesday night.  

Forty-nine of our 50 students made it back to their hotel by foot, car, or hitchhiking that night.  The hotel had no drivers to send the shuttles for them.

Going home Wednesday, I saw some great "Good Samaritan" moments and some outright idiotic driving decisions.  No doubt, you did too.

We'll still be comparing stories by the time we meet again on Sunday at 9:47 am.

Our official lesson this week is called "What About People Who've Never Heard About Jesus?".  I say 'official' because that's what the book has for this week.  The passage is Romans 1:16-25.

Here's the rub, though.  Owen did a great job of answering that question last week.  It was a tangent he took off on without knowing it was the heart of this week's lesson.

I didn't want to duplicate what we did last Sunday, so our lesson will be about something else.  What will it be?  Not sure yet. 

I'm waiting on God to nudge me in the right direction.  He always does.

Finish Friday strong!  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday.

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

“The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago; the second best time is today.”  Chinese proverb

Stand Firm in Your Faith -- November 1, 2013

I hope you've had a great week.
Mine was schizophrenic.  At work, I finished an important project and prepared for a new class.  At home, the girls had a great time at our Fall Festival on Wednesday and Trick-Or-Treating in Paxton Place on Thursday. 

But it wasn't a good week at all for some people I love; three different people to be exact.  My heart hurts for the situations they face.

First, on Monday, my best friend from high school emailed me to say his older brother has a mass on his pancreas.  They did a biopsy yesterday and will know something next Wednesday.

Second, on Tuesday, my mother told me that hospice has been called to take care of her best friend whose breast cancer has spread to her brain.

Third, on Wednesday (during the Fall Festival), one of my good friends from college texted me to say his dad's cancer had returned to his spine.  His kidneys and bowels have shut down.  To quote my friend, "It won't be long."

God has been hearing from me more this week than He has for a while.  I've prayed for healing.  But mostly I've prayed for peace for those afflicted and the people who love them.  Each of the ones affected is a Christian; their final home is no mystery.

October 16th was my birthday.  My wife and girls gave me Andy Andrews' new book "The Noticer Returns".  I started reading it last Saturday and finished it Wednesday night.

One story in the book gave a wonderful picture to those whose loved ones are facing death.  I paraphrased it and sent it to one of my friends.  I'm going to share it with you because either you or someone you know may be the one in fear of being 'left behind' when a loved one slips from this life into the next.  Adapted from pages 143-144 of "The Noticer Returns"...

"Friend,


You think that your sweet father is at the end, but that is only a lie you have believed.  Because your fear has grown, you believe his fear has become greater…which is another lie.  You believe he is experiencing something bad that gets worse until there is nothing at all.  That, too, is a lie.


Here is the truth, Friend.  He is not at the end.  He is at the beginning.  His fear has not become greater; it has become less and less until now, his fear is gone altogether.  And he is not experiencing something bad that gets worse until there is nothing at all…he is experiencing something incredible that gets better, until there is everything.


Before this man was ever born, when he was warm and snug inside his mama’s belly, he kicked and twisted, moving this way and that.  For months he struggled.  He became uncomfortable.  He longed for more freedom and began to sense that the world he inhabited was not where he ultimately belonged.  He did not know what was on the other side of his struggle, but he was getting ready to experience something new and wonderful that in his wildest imaginings could not be described.  Friend…he was getting ready to breathe.


And when he finally drew that first breath, it was clean and fresh and like nothing he had ever felt.  He took another breath and another—and all around him, loved ones and friends cheered in a joyous celebration of his arrival.


Look at him now, Friend.  For many years this dear child was happy and content in this body.  But for some time now, he has struggled.  He has become uncomfortable.  He has begun to long for freedom from the pain of this body and has sensed that the world he inhabits is not where he ultimately belongs.  Even now he does not fully appreciate the reality that is waiting on the other side of his struggle, but he is preparing to experience something new and wonderful that in his wildest imaginings could not be described.  Right now…right this minute…he is getting ready to breathe.


And when he draws that first breath, it will be clean and clear and fresh, like nothing he has ever experienced.  He will take another breath and another and another; and all around, his loved ones, his family and friends, will cheer in a joyous celebration of his arrival.


Do not be afraid for yourself, Friend.  You can make the same journey one day—you can join him if you choose to do so.  And don’t be afraid for him.  He is fine.  Remember…he is getting ready to breathe."


It's a beautiful picture, isn't it?  Now you may wonder where this ties in with our lesson for this week.  The title of the lesson is "Stand Your Ground".  The point is to never compromise when the issue is a matter of biblical right and wrong.

As a Christian, I should not despair in these situations.  God's hand will move to glorify Himself.  I need to stand firm in the promises He's made to us.

We will discuss our scripture passage from Galatians 2:1-14.  Be there at 9:45 am this Sunday morning.  You don't really have an excuse not to make it on time because you'll have an extra hour to sleep.  It's "Fall Back" weekend so set your clocks back an hour on Saturday night.

Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

"Be sure you put your feet in the right place, then stand firm." -- Abraham Lincoln

Bestowing a Gift -- September 9, 2013

Who deserves to go to heaven with you?
Who should be told about the Good News of Jesus?
Is that guy over there witness-worthy?

Does that girl qualify for hearing your testimony?
Would you be comfortable with that person sitting in the pew next to you during Big Church?  Dressed like that?
Why would you ever start a conversation with that guy about God?  Just look at him.

Let's discuss the answers to these questions Sunday at 9:45 am.

Read James 2:1-13 so you'll know see what Jesus' step-brother said.  That's a good place to start.
Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

“There are no rules around here!  We’re trying to accomplish something!”  Thomas Edison

The Bible: The Ultimate Kevlar Vest -- August 2, 2013

Do you ever feel like Christians are the new "bad guy" in our culture today?

It's not to the throw-them-to-the-lions level--yet.  But a vocal minority is doing a good job shaping the national conversation in a way to criticize and marginalize God's followers.

So what should we as Christians do? 

I guess we could try to debate those who think differently than us.  We could picket outside of businesses that are "sinful".  We could even go on websites and post messages that tell people they are going to hell if they don't believe what we do.

Or we could do something really radical--learn what's in the Bible.

To handle the arrows of hate that are shot at us, we need to be wearing the armor of God.  That's where God's Word comes in.

If we as Christians will read and follow the Bible, we will influence others who are searching for meaning in their lives.

This week, we transition from the Old to the New Testament in our trip through God's Story.  The next few weeks will highlight the boulders on which our faith as Christians rest.  Think of it as a refresher course on Bible basics.

Our lesson this week is called "God Sends His Son".  We'll talk about:
1.  Jesus is Fully God and Fully Man (John 1:1-2,14)
2.  Only Jesus Came to Bring Salvation (John 1:11-13,18,29)
3.  Only Jesus Embodied God's Kingdom (Matthew 4:17-24)

So join us at 9:50 a.m. Sunday morning.  You'll be glad you did.

Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

Friday, July 26, 2013

A Lunch to Remember -- July 26, 2013

Welcome to Moe's!

That's one of my favorite phrases to hear.  Why?  Because it means I'm about to eat a Joey burrito with steak and black beans.  Rice, cheese, salsa, and lettuce along with tortilla chips make this meal complete.

Such was the case last Sunday for lunch.  After "big church", I changed into shorts and headed to the Moe's at Lee Branch on 280.  The plan was to eat, then go to Academy Sports.  Yes, that's how I roll.

Anyway.  I'm standing in line at Moe's waiting for my turn to order.  Behind me are four nicely-dressed college-aged kids; two guys, two girls (hey, I'm 41; college-aged=kids).  I can't help but overhear their conversation.  One of the guys will be buying everybody's lunch, but he's short on cash.  So they are scouring the menu board trying to maximize the amount of food they can get with their limited funds.

They start working up their plan.  One of them volunteers, "If we just drink water, we can save almost $8!". 

After giving my order to the folks behind the counter, I move on down toward the cash register.  The register is backed up with others ready to pay.

One of the girls from the group of four had given her order and was right behind me.  The other three were still ten feet behind us.  To pass the time, I asked her, "You seem to be part of a group, what are ya'll doing?".

Her answer floored me.  Without missing a beat, she replied, "We are part of a group called 'Pray for Birmingham'.  Our mission is to go into areas around the city and pray for the people of Birmingham.  We want to shine the light of Jesus to the whole city."

Now, let me back up to get a running start.  Scott's sermon just 71 minutes prior to this conversation was titled "Don't Shout: Shine".  The scripture was Matthew 5:13-16.  In it, Jesus tells his followers to be salt and light.  God really must have thought He needed to hammer this into me.  He used two people to give me the same message within a two-hour time frame.

I told her that Birmingham, and our whole country, could use lots of prayer.  And I congratulated her on doing God's work.  By then, her friends caught up to us.  She dove back into a conversation with them.  It was my turn to pay at the register.

I got out my card and paid for my lunch.  Then, I reached for my money clip and got out a twenty dollar bill.  I quietly told the guy at the register that the twenty was to go toward the group behind me.  He nodded and I took my tray.

The restaurant was crowded.  The only place for my party of one to sit was just across the half-wall from the register.  I'd gotten my drink and salsa, said grace, and was unwrapping my burrito when I heard the next part of the story.

All four of the 'Pray for Birmingham' group had their food and were ready to pay.  The guy at the register said, "That will be $14.32".  One of the group replied, "Something must be wrong.  All four of these meals are on one bill." 

The guy at the register said, "Yes.  But he already paid for the rest of it" while pointing at me.

Four pairs of eyes turned to me in amazement.  They settled their bill, then came to my table.  It's the most "God Bless You's" I've ever gotten without sneezing.

I told them to keep doing Christ's work and enjoy your meal.

I thoroughly enjoyed mine.


Now for a preview of this week's class...

The title of our lesson this Sunday at 9:50 am is "God Promises the Messiah".  Our scripture passage is Isaiah 53:2-12.

The outline of the lesson is:
1.  The Messiah Became One of Us
2.  The Messiah Suffered for Us
3.  The Messiah Rescues Us

Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne


"What the caterpillar calls the end, the rest of the world calls a butterfly." -- Lao Tsu

Friday, June 28, 2013

A Tent for Church? -- June 28, 2013

One of my favorite TV shows when I was growing up was M*A*S*H.  Set during the Korean War, it followed the high-jinx of the doctors and nurses of the 4077th Mobile Army Surgical Hospital.  Most of the time, they stayed in one place.  But sometimes, they had to pack up everything and bug out to a new location further away from the fighting.

This week, we will look at God's plan for His mobile house of worship--the Tabernacle. 

It got me thinking:

If you were designing the blueprint today for your new home, what would be the most important thing you’d want to include or change from your present dwelling? Why?

At 9:50 am this Sunday, discover what God's design said not only about His relationship with the ancient Israelites but also about what He wants out of His relationship with you.

Here is our outline for "God Dwells Among His People":
Follow God’s Plan (Exodus 26:30-33)
Encounter God’s Presence (Exodus 29:43-46)
Acknowledge God’s Glory (Exodus 40:34-38)

Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

"There are a lot of ways to become a failure, but never taking a chance is the most successful."  Anonymous

Friday, June 7, 2013

Go Where I Send Thee -- June 7, 2013

It was July 1995.  My first job out of college was in Birmingham with Parisian, the clothing store.  I had worked a year in the store and a year in the Planning Division at corporate.  I wanted a sales job.

One of my best friends, Brad, worked with a company called Gumdrop Books.  His dad helped start the business in the early 70's.  Brad had a sales territory available.  Problem was:  it was in North Carolina.  From Charlotte to the coast; two counties deep the whole way.  It was the southeastern third of the state.

I was 23 and single.  If I looked at it logically, the centerpoint of the territory would be near Pinehurst, North Carolina.  Great place to play golf, but not a place you'd want to be single.  Though it would mean more driving, I decided I'd live in Charlotte.

Brad went with me to find an apartment in Charlotte.  It needed to be on the eastern side of the city since that's the direction I'd go every week.

We went to a complex called Woodway Point.  It was mid to upscale.  Had a pool and a small gym.  Trash pickup service.  They had a one bedroom unit available on the top floor--a must for me.

I almost pulled the trigger and put a deposit down, but I thought I needed to look at a few more places.  We left to go to the next complex on my list.

We drove two miles to the next apartment.  We pulled in to the leasing office.

I couldn't open the door of my car.  Something was stopping me.

I looked over at Brad.  I told him, "I'm supposed to be at Woodway Point."

He shrugged his shoulders and chuckled.  We drove back to Woodway Point

I wrote a check for the deposit.  A few weeks later, I moved in and started working with Gumdrop Books.

I mentioned that Woodway Point had a gym, right?

Two years after I moved in, I met this cute redhead named Christina at that gym.  We became friends, started dating, and got married.

All because I couldn't open my car door at an apartment complex down the road.

I know God guided me to that particular place at that particular time.  It wasn't His booming voice, just a nudge in the right direction.  The important thing was that I went where He wanted me to go.

And that has made all the difference.  (In a really good way)

This Sunday at 9:50 am, we'll look at the story of Abram.  You know him better by his newer name, Abraham.

God told him to move from where he was to another place God would show him.

The outline of the lesson is:
     A Plan of Blessing (Genesis 12:1-3)
     A Response of Obedience (Genesis 12:4-7)
     A Relationship of Faith (Genesis 15:5-8,13-17)

Finish Friday strong.  Enjoy Saturday with your family.  See you Sunday!

Loyally yours,

Darren Bayne

"There is the risk you cannot afford to take, and there is the risk you cannot afford not to take." - Peter Drucker